This morning I rose early (early for a Saturday) to get my work done that I had been unable to complete last night because of my son’s basketball game. As luck would have it, I would spend the next 40 minutes trying unsuccessfully to log into our electronic medical record. Following refresh attempt after refresh attempt (intervening time killed by reading emails and scrolling through Facebook), I finally called our IT department to discover that the “system is down” and that they were “working on it.” Hopefully, it would be up later in the day. Now, I don’t know about you but I am the sort of person who is unsettled by things left undone. Having 12 incomplete charts out there, memory of exam findings and assessments and plans fading by the moment, just gets me nervous and feeling like things are a bit out of control. I know, this sounds like a personal issue and I really need to learn to let go. Nonetheless, I was left feeling on edge.
So, in an effort to regain some semblance of control over my world, I reached for my old friend, my trusted assistant. “Okay!”, I said to my husband who was trying to enjoy quietly reading the paper. “Do you know what will make me feel better about this? What will make me feel a bit more in charge?” And he nonchalantly, as if he knows me or something, said, “Of course! You will write a To Do list. And it will start with #1 – work, #2 – exercise, #3 – brush teeth, #4 – get dressed…. It’s the same To Do list every time.”
“Nuh-uh”, I said in my wittiest comeback ever. “I don’t put things like ‘brush teeth’ on my To Do list!” I wasn’t going to let him shame me for my To Do list habit. To Do lists are the foundation of a highly successful life, or so I’ve said to myself during conversations with me.
This got me thinking. Why not set my To Do lists up to ensure success? When life gets overwhelming and the number of responsibilities are piled high on my proverbial plate, I gain comfort and confidence by breaking tasks down into measurable, accomplishable actions. I do not get as granular as my husband proposed, but I do plan out my day, step by step, so that things don’t get missed. I mean, how else is a person supposed to remember everything that needs to get done?
So, I am now planning, and I won’t let you make me feel silly for doing so, to start each To Do list with “#1 – Write To Do list”. Why, you ask? Because in making my To Do list, I have already accomplished my first task! I am winning at my day already! First thing on the list, crossed off! (This is a very satisfying feeling, by the way, crossing something off your to do list. You should really try it.) Success is mine from the moment my day begins. Don’t you think this is a good way to start each day? Why start the day with a dauntingly long list of tasks – especially when #1 (ok, work is always my #1 on the To Do list) is not achievable because stupid technology fails? Now, #1 will always be achievable.
Some may read this and think, “She’s crazy!” But, that’s ok. I don’t mind. I own and cherish my crazies. They make me uniquely me. And, in this case, crazy gets the job done! Now, off to make my To Do list of To Do Lists I Need To Make.
1. To Do – Make To Do list of To Do lists
2. To Do – What to pack for the lake
3. To Do – Lists of writing ideas
4. To Do – How to keep child #2 focused and on task (encourage use of To Do lists)